One of the most difficult things that any of us can expect to face is a partner cheating on us. Should you learn that your boyfriend or girlfriend has been seeing someone else, you’re going to experience feelings of anger, jealously, and rage… But you need to calm yourself at this moment. Chill out, take a deep breath, and look at yourself, and what you are doing. The kinds of strong emotions you are experiencing can make you do rash things.
You also need to think about how your partner cheated on you, how terrible it was. What if it was just a kiss and a hug while they were wasted? No doubt this will make you mad, but a lot of people would say this kind of behavior could be excused.
Some people would decide that the only thing to do is to finish the relationship. But for others, should they still love their partner, they may feel that they can still keep the relationship. So what should you do?
The first thing, no matter what you intend to do, is to talk to your partner and ask them why they cheated on you. Once you find out the reason why they behaved like this, it may help you to choose what your next decision is. After you have spoken with them about the reasons why they did this to you, you should consider if you can ever trust them again. If that’s impossible, then it may be time to break off the relationship for good.
Another kind of cheating is chatting with someone online. If this happens to you, then you might need to take a look at yourself and consider if there is some kind of issue with your lover, maybe some need they have that you are not fulfilling. Communication is the key for minor indiscretions, which are nearly always not worth breaking up over.
However, if your other half had sex with another boy/girl then this is a much more difficult problem, especially if it happened more than once. Chances are it will be incredibly difficult to trust them again.
Ultimately, you have to go with whatever your heart tells you when your partner hurts you. If your heart says to you it’s only a little thing and you still feel you can trust your partner, then you should do everything to fix the problem and repair your relationship. But if you feel the trust has gone, then it’s probably time to end things, for both of your sakes.